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This early lesson was validated through the years: Always wanting sex is the mark of manliness for many.
So, what do men want more than sex? Sure, there is the physical pleasure, but there is a deeper need that is being satisfied. I call a,l the need for a safe harbor. The world of men is a world of competition. On the most basic level, males compete with other males for access to the most desirable females.
Males make the advances and females decide which males they will accept. Getting taken into her body gives us a sense of peace and homecoming that goes way beyond simple sexual pleasure. Many of us remember the early school dances we attended. If you wanted to hold a girl in your arms, you had to make ym long walk across the room with everyone watching and ask the girl to dance.
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What we really want is a safe harbor where we can take refuge, relax, and be cared for.
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I just must be willing to be deeply vulnerable. Just as its difficult for men to ask to be held, nurtured, and touched; its often difficult for women to give that kind of intimacy.
There are three main reasons, which are often subconscious:. It takes a lot of time and maturity for men to admit to themselves that they need a safe harbor where they can be nurtured and embraced by a maj.
It takes a lot of courage to let his woman know he may want sex, but more important is his need for security, love, and nurture. It requires a level of Hard working man looking to give a woman my all to know that allowing ourselves to be as vulnerable as a child may be the manliest thing a man can do. For a woman, she must also go beyond her own conditioning and be open to a man who is making himself vulnerable in new ways.
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